A man with an erect penis and no partner nearby is very likely to end up engaging in a bit of masturbation, a thoroughly enjoyable activity that is usually quite satisfying. Yet sometimes a man may be a bit put off by the “solo-ness” of self-stimulation and may therefore enjoy exploring masturbation clubs as an option. The shared experience of masturbation clubs can be very stimulating. Of course, with one’s erect penis on display, a guy needs to practice good penis care to keep his organ looking its best. But what else does a man need to know about masturbation clubs?
Pick the right type.
The first thing a man needs to do is decide what type of masturbatory experience he is looking for. Does he want to recreate the “circle jerk” experiences of his youth and simply be around other men who are masturbating? Or is he more interested in a mixed experience, in which he can be aroused by the sight of women masturbating as well? This will determine if he chooses a males-only or mixed gender club.
Male-only masturbation clubs are typically called jack-off clubs; those which encourage participation from both genders are often known as jack-and-jill clubs. (There are, of course, female-only clubs, but men are by definition not welcome in those.)
It may seem that straight men would be interested only in mixed sex clubs, but that’s not necessarily the case. Some men may feel uncomfortable masturbating in front of women and may feel more at ease bonding through a masturbatory experience at a males-only club.
Follow the rules.
Straight men interested in a males-only situation but worried about activities beyond masturbation should know that clubs have rules. These rules usually define what activities are allowed and what are not. Each club will have its own set of standards, but the following are some found at most typical masturbation clubs.
– Masturbation only. Although a masturbation club is by definition an environment in which there is heated arousal and sexual excitement, most emphasize that the only form of sex allowed is masturbation. One may be tempted to engage in or ask for oral sex or vaginal or anal penetration, but in most clubs this is not allowed. (If a person wants to ask a willing partner to their own home for these activities, that is a different story.)
What about touching or being touched by another person? Some clubs are fine with it, some have a “hands only on yourself” policy. However, whatever the policy, it’s important that such activity occurs only between two willing participants. No person should be touched (or kissed, etc.) without his/her consent.
– Keeps your clothes off. Again, this policy can vary, but most clubs require participants to doff their clothing before entering the main action area. (Often shoes or socks are allowed.) This is so participants don’t feel self-conscious. A person may observe and not masturbate, but if doing so causes a person to feel self-conscious, he or she should move on.
– Keep it clean. Hygiene is important, so men are responsible for cleaning up any ejaculate they spray upon the premises.
– Consideration is key. Being naked in front of other people can be a huge thrill – or it can be a challenge. Be mindful that all different body types will be on display and avoid being rude or judgmental about those with body types not consistent with one’s taste. Also, be aware that privacy is often an issue. If a man sees someone he knows at a club, be aware that that other person may not want to be acknowledged.
Masturbation clubs allow an erect penis to engage in its favorite activity in a new setting. Men should make sure their equipment is at its healthiest by using a quality penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil). Make sure dry skin is not an issue by using a crème that includes both a natural hydrator (like vitamin E) and a high-end emollient (like Shea butter). And a crème with a powerful antioxidant like alpha lipoic acid can help to offset harmful oxidative processes that can leave the penis looking wrinkled and aged. If it’s going to be on display, make it something to see.